I wasn't clear on #4 of my list of 10 things. It was intended to be a compliment. Aaron read that and must've missed the word NOT in the sentence. What I was trying to say was I did believe in that perfect person naively. There is no perfect person. I for one am far from perfect. It was getting married that made me throw to the wind the idea that someone out there could possibly be better for me. I don't think there is someone better for me. But soulmates we are not. Alright, sorry to be so convoluted sometimes when I write. But sometimes it's at 1am that I type, and it sounds perfectly clear to me. I'll try and write more in daylight hours.